First dates are hard, and blind dates are even harder. You want to be seen as sexy and confident. Being eager and nervous can sabotage your first impression. Here are a few tips for guys and girls on first dates. Dress for success, dress to impress. Put your best outfit on and make sure it is clean and in repair. Girls, it is okay to show a little skin, but not too much. Pick one part to expose and cover up the rest. Guys, do not wear sandals unless you absolutely have to.

Putting your best foot forward does not mean letting her see your toenails and hairy toes. Leave those parts that are not the best parts of you covered up. Pay particular attention to hygiene. Guys, clean your fingernails and do not let nose hairs stick out of your nose. Girls, don't forget the perfume, wear your hair down if you can, and make sure your fingernails are done. When the attention you pay to your body shows, it sends the very desirable message that you take care of yourself

Guys, pay for the date and girls, let him. Men like to provide, and any man interested in you would not dream of letting you pay. Girls, when you insist on paying, you send him two messages. One is that you are not interested so you do not want to be obligated to see him again. The second message you send is that you will not let him provide for you. Guys, if you are not prepared to pay for the date, do not go on it. You will ruin your chances of a future with this girl if you want her to pay

Expecting her to pay sends her two messages. One is that you are not interested in providing for her, and the other is that a future with you will be one in which her needs are not met first and she is not taken care of. This turns girls off because subconsciously girls need to pick a man who will provide for her and the children. You cannot argue with biology; this is just the way it is.